mom

My mother, who lives in California, who unfortunately I am not super close with, had 2 small strokes last week.  Thought she was improving but now it's taken a turn for the worse.  I fly out to CA tomorrow morning.  Stomach is in knots.  My dad, her ex, went to see her yesterday.  She's like a skeleton, not eating, not really communicating or understanding what's going on.  I am it for family - there is no one else.  I don't know if she has any directives, a will - any info regarding her financial affairs and what to do to take care of them.

I am trying NOT to panic.  Not panicking is not my strong point.  It was hard enough to handle when my daughter left, and now... THIS.